In the time that I have been enthusiastically exploring and learning about pegging, I’ve learned so much about what it feels like for a man to have a woman slip a dildo inside him and fuck his sweet ass. I did learn from practice, often the best way to learn. But I also participated in many forums online where men waxed poetic about getting pegged….sharing information about how it feels, what positions are best for the most pleasure, what kinds of orgasms they have experienced and the particular sensations associated with each. In all of my explorations, conversations and discussions, the same theme kept coming back over and over. Pleasure, pleasure and more pleasure.

So let me formally and unequivocally answer the question posed by the title of this article…

Yes, Yes and Yes. Oh….and Yes.

And…OH!! YES!!

Okay…there will of course be the occasional man who does not get a thrill out of pegging…because people are delightfully diverse. Bodies are different, emotional makeups differ and sexual openness will vary. There will also be the occasional man who hates even a finger in his ass because it hurts, or even if it doesn’t hurt ass play is just not his thing. They are out there. But for the overwhelming majority of men…it feels incredible. Really incredible.

Reassuring the Women

If you are a woman reading this and you have doubts about pegging your husband/boyfriend/significant other because you can’t see how he could possibly enjoy it…please, do read on. I have become a firm believer that the only way to be good at giving anal sex is to receive it. Many women have been on the receiving end of bad anal sex. You know the kind. The well-meaning inexperienced guy shoves his spit-on cock up your ass because he doesn’t have a clue that you can’t treat an ass like a vagina (that’s what they do in the porn movies, right?)….and it fucking hurts like hell…so you never, ever want to have anal sex again…ever. I know this happens more than people realize. So maybe years go by…and now a guy is asking you to fuck him in the ass? I see how you could be confused. Here’s the secret:

Anal sex done correctly does not hurt.

Without going into the specifics of how to peg your guy (that is elsewhere on this website), what I want to make sure that you realize is that not only will it not hurt your man if you do it right, there is a very good chance he will be over the moon, singing, swooning and having orgasms more intense than anything he’s ever experienced! So if you have found your way to my website because your guy is asking you to peg him…chances are he may have already found out on his own that anal stimulation feels amazing or he’s heard that it is and would love to explore with you. Awesome – one more way to experience intimate pleasure as a couple. Keep reading.

Why does Pegging feel so good to men?

Two words. Prostate gland. Direct stimulation of a man’s prostate gland can feel as good as a woman’s G-spot feels when stimulated. Really. So yes…it can absolutely bring a man thrilling, orgasmic sensations as well as actual orgasms with stimulation of his cock and sometimes even…without touching his cock at all.

Reassuring the Men

If you have found your way to this website you may be one of the incredibly lucky men whose woman has actually approached you with the idea of pegging. And yes, you are quite fortunate. Or perhaps you have heard or read about the potential pleasure involved and just wanted to learn more. No matter how you got here, if you are at all questioning whether strap-on sex can be enjoyable, rest assured that it can indeed bring you exquisite pleasure and is well worth exploring with your partner. You have the potential to delight in orgasms ten times more powerful than anything you have ever experienced , orgasms that produce prodigious amounts of come. Some men can orgasm without touching their cock, and those “hands-free” orgasms can not only be the most exquisite of all, some men attain multiple orgasms that way as well. How could you possibly read all that and not at least give it a try?!

Yes, Pegging feels…incredible. And here’s a Newsflash:

Women can orgasm from pegging, too.

 

What the Men Say About Pegging Orgasms

“The best way I know to describe it is very close to a female orgasm. They start in my tummy/pelvis and radiate through my body in wave after wave of pleasure. No, I do not experience any kind of ejaculation either. Many times I am left lying there limp as a rag doll.”

“I haven’t had many experiences but every time a woman has used her strap-on and taken my ass…I’ll get super hard and cum very hard too.”

“I have very strong to the point of shaking orgasms and just a gusher of cum, hit the ceiling strong.”

“I absolutely can orgasm, in a very non-male way.. no ejaculate… As described by a few others, it’s sort of a mind/brain short circuiting body sensory meltdown.. I shake and quiver uncontrollably, breath very short and rapidly, and become incredibly sensitive to sounds and touch… This can go for several minutes (in one case), but usually only lasts 30-60 seconds… When it’s done I feel like I’ve run a marathon.. Exhausted and quivering… It leaves my mind cleared out like shaking an etch-a-sketch… Sign me up anytime for more :)”

Ya know, I’m very skeptical… So much BS spread around… I decided to try this and prove you all wrong… I fired up my fucking machine with a moderate dildo, and ran it for 25 minutes… Nothing… Then I recalled a few prostate orgasm videos which showed what everybody is talking about.. Watching the technique and pressure they used, I decided to try a firmer, plastic g spot vibrator…after a few minutes, the feeling grew intense, and all my muscles involuntarily tense and I let out this deep throated groan losing all control.. The muscles released, and I was panting for my breath.. A few minutes later .. The same… 4 times in 20 minutes… I can only conclude they were anal orgasms… No ejaculate.. Just extreme contractions…I can’t wait to do it again… It truly happens… Amazing experience…I’m a believer!

Kudos to those of you who allowed me to use your comments here. Thanks for sharing descriptions of your orgasmic pegging experience with us and here’s hoping it convinces a few of the curious to give it a try.

Note: Pain is an indicator. If you experience pain with anal stimulation despite slow exploration with small fingers/toys and plenty of lube, get checked by your doctor just to make sure you do not have a medical condition that needs attention.

9 Comments

  1. YES! YES! YES! The first couple times were experimental for us both. On about our third or fourth different toy (large and intimidating) with a more sturdy harness things went %150 beyond what I could ever have imagined! She put me on my stomach and spread my legs with her own as if I was trapped without restraints. I was feeling very vulnerable and could feel my heart beating out of my chest, especially as I peeked back at the massive purple toy that was my lover’s new cock. “Do you want any lube?” she said as I fumbled around with my left hand at the night stand still cemented into place on my chest. I handed the lube back to her as she then greased up the instrument sliding it between my cheeks as if she were fucking a pair of breasts. “You need to relax” she said aggressively, as I knew that was an impossible command! I gripped the sheets and bit the pillow as she slowly pressed beyond my resistance. “Ah! Gentle” I said. Though I was yelling, it was as if my words went unheard as she railed deeper and faster into me. As I was moaning and my muscles still fighting I decided it was already happening I might as well embrace it. I let loose of any resistance I had previously. I just relaxed and floated on clouds that were our sheets. After laying there submitting to her aggressive thrusting, I relieved my self screaming out, “oh god! I’m done, you can stop. Oh god!” She again continued until I lie there speechless, shaking, and fully drained. Every muscle in my body was now jello and unable to move. After she released the new burden from my back side she laid on her back and unfastened one side of her strap grabbing me by my hair sunk my face deep within her. She has said that was the most intense cunnilingus I had ever performed, and by god she deserved it! Strap up ladies, and show us men a hell of a ride.

    • This was fun to read, but I want to caution readers that it’s never okay to push past someone’s request to be gentle (especially if they are relatively new) and FFS – ALWAYS use lube – it’s not a question, it’s mandatory. Glad you two had a good time!

  2. The lube question was more of “you better hand it to me if you want it.” Plenty of lube Aqua normally feels best or H20 brands, do not go cheap as that along with novelty $40 toys may have been the issue the first few times.

  3. We have yet to find a Two way pleasure strapon that is comfortable for us both! So I always perform post “kinky” favors! I would love to create one but making each other happy has done just fine until something comes along.

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  5. I’ve had this done to me and love it.. when I Cum it’s so intense and I’m left in a mess.. would recommend this to anyone..

  6. My wife pegged me for the first time last night, after months of joking and talking about it. She wore a Fuze Tango with a Joque harness, and all I can do today is think about how great it felt. She seemed to really like bending me over and dominating me. She had a couple of intense orgasms before I came, which proves to me she really liked it. We tried a few different positions like missionary and me on top. We found out that doggy style or me standing up bent over are our best positions. After it was over, we figured out that, while she has always wanted to know what having a penis felt like and the new toy gave her a good idea, not being able to feel the head made it difficult for her to know if it was in and also made it dificult for her to control thrusting angle and depth. With me bent over, she had the full control she needed. We both liked it a lot, and we are definitely going to keep it on our menu of kinky sexual things to do to each other.

    Thanks for all of the guidance on your site. While my wife has joked around for years about wanting to know what it felt like to have a penis and how she wanted to play anal games with me, your site gave me some good tips about talking to her about it, toy selection and actual techniques.

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