Introducing your partner to the idea of Pegging can be a challenge. The conversation can be really scary to have; it is a difficult subject to broach precisely because there are so many myths and misconceptions around pegging.
Everyone has the right to decide what they do and don’t want to do in bed. But sometimes fears and misconceptions around Pegging can get in the way of responding rather than reacting to those incorrect assumptions. For this reason I am a fan of having accurate information before the final decision is made.
In that spirit, I recorded two podcasts; one for givers and one for receivers.
For Givers who would like to introduce the idea of Pegging to their potential Receivers
For Receivers who would like to introduce the idea of Pegging to their potential Givers
These recordings address all the usual fears and misconceptions, offer accurate information and emphasize the relationship. And they do not try to convince!
Please listen to it first before playing it for your partner, because only you can decide if it is appropriate for them.
These podcasts get rave reviews! Hopefully, they will make introducing your partner to the concept of Pegging a little easier. And if your partner wants to learn more about pegging, my webinars are available at this link!
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Thanks for all the information. I would love for my wife to participate with me in this. It’s one of my fantasies. Just imagining her pegging me while we embrace is a complete turn on.
Your comment got buried in spam. My apologies. Have you listened to #112 yet?
Love your content and I got my gf a strap on and she was stoked on it, she hasn’t pegged me yet but I also want her to fuck my throat with it too but I’m hesitant to ask her and turn her off
One thing at a time – have you asked her yet?
I have only been pegged by one former play partner. only twice.
would enjoy finding a new playmate into it.
First, differentiate between looking for the experience of pegging, and looking for a relationship with pegging. If you are simply looking for the experience, with all due respect for the potential illegality of it, go find a pro. Here are all the reasons why:
https://peggingparadise.com/2013/04/the-case-for-a-pro/
If you are looking for a relationship that includes pegging, first look wherever you usually look for a partner. Do not lead with the idea of pegging before you even meet them. Why? Because this makes givers like me who are into pegging feel like a fetish dispenser – like the only thing you are looking for is pegging, not a relationship. Go on a couple of dates. Do not have sex yet. On the second or third date lay your kink cards on the table kind of like this:
“So hey, we have a few dates now, and I’ve enjoyed them. I’d like to see more of you. Also, I wanted to let you know that I’m very open-minded sexually, and I’d like to eventually explore pegging. If that’s something you’ve had an interest in or are open to, I’m the perfect person for you! If not, no harm no foul and we can go our separate ways. So what do you think?”
If you scare them away, that’s good because they aren’t the right partner for you. The reason you don’t have sex first is because that creates intimacy and a connection. If the sex is good, it’s hard to walk away, even if they hate the idea of pegging.
Good luck!