What to do When There is Bleeding

A man found my website with the search words:

“I bled after being pegged”

This situation always concerns me. Anal tissues are much more fragile and subject to tearing than, for example, vaginal tissues (where babies are born from). So many people do not realize that care must be taken when approaching anal penetration. A LOT of care. And too many people don’t seem to realize that when I say slow I really mean slow…like half an hour of foreplay, not just sticking your finger in his ass for a minute and then two fingers for a minute and then shoving a dildo up his ass. Givers, NO!!!

If you go too fast with pegging, it can definitely cause problems. Bleeding is one of them. If you see any blood while pegging, call it a night, give the receiver’s ass a rest and try again in a couple of days. Usually there will be pain connected to bleeding, too. And remember, you are feeling pain, you are doing something wrong.

Some people wonder when to be concerned if there is bleeding. That depends on the amount of blood. If it’s just a spot or two, no problem. You should still stop the fucking and let the ass recover. If there is more blood and/or it doesn’t stop, a trip to the doctor might be in order. These are the Mayo Clinic’s guidelines for seriousness of symptoms.

For the Newbies

• Step-by-step foreplay “Newbie Ass Play”
• Safety Rules – PANTS!