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Best Exercises for Pegging Givers

My beginner’s webinar impresses upon you that fucking is an athletic event. Givers learn to appreciate their partners so much more when they discover precisely what it takes to fuck someone; endurance, strength, balance, and grace. So what are the best exercises for pegging givers? What will help you…

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Best Pegging Positions

The best pegging positions depend on many factors; body type, height, fitness, and more. Here are some to try! They vary in degrees of intimacy, eye contact, cock accessibility, kissing, comfort, and giver/receiver effort required. Enjoy! Many Missionaries – to Convert You to Pegging! Missionary rates high for eye contact…

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Introducing Your Partner to Pegging

Introducing your partner to the idea of Pegging can be a challenge. The conversation can be really scary to have; it is a difficult subject to broach precisely because there are so many myths and misconceptions around pegging. Everyone has the right to decide what they do and don’t…

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The Basics of Rimming

What are the Basics of Rimming? Rimming, as sexy and hot and intimate and delightfully nasty as it is…is not everyone’s cup of tea. Yet some people love the feel of teasing their tongue into their partner’s ass and feeling them squirm with pleasure. And many people love the sensation…

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No…He’s Not Gay

He’s not gay. Okay, everyone listening? Two common misconceptions about pegging: If a man likes pegging, he must be gay. If you peg a straight man, he will become gay. Cue Laughter and Eye Roll Both of these are so ridiculous as to be laughable on so many levels….

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Intimacy and Pegging

Intimacy and pegging go together like hand in glove, usually. Intimacy is often a necessary ingredient in pegging, and can’t be created with the buckle of a strap-on harness. The fantasy of meeting someone, going home with them and pulling out the strap-on makes for great erotica fodder, yet…

Ruby Ryder
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The Pegging Orgasm Intensity Question!

Pegging Orgasm Intensity What does an orgasm feels like with combined prostate stimulation or pegging with penis stimulation? Is an orgasm like that really 10x more powerful than a “normal” orgasm? What the Receivers Say I asked these questions in the subreddit r/pegging some years back (when there used to be…

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Approaching Him About Pegging

If you are a woman who wants to approach your man about pegging, this article is for you. (If you are a man who wants to approach your woman about pegging click here.) Communication First, communication is the key. You need to be able to ask for what you want. If you…

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Pegging Orgasms for Givers!

Okay Givers… Let’s explore what makes you orgasm while pegging. Inquiring minds want to know, including your partners, beginners, other women who peg, and their partners! Engaging in pegging gets me so hot that I’m dripping, but I am typically more about the orgasm that I give my partner…

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The First Time – Take it SLOW

One thing I have been hearing about over and over lately is couples who rush through the period of time between getting excited about trying out pegging, and the first time the actually do it. Slow Down! There is so much to learn and so much to enjoy during…

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