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Best Exercises for Pegging Givers

My beginner’s webinar impresses upon you that fucking is an athletic event. Givers learn to appreciate their partners so much more when they discover precisely what it takes to fuck someone; endurance, strength, balance, and grace. So what are the best exercises for pegging givers? What will help you…

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Strap-on Fears for the Giver

What strap-on fears prevent a Giver from exploring pegging? First of all… Pegging, this thing we love and indulge in with such passion and excitement, requires equipment. Indeed, much has been discussed here at Pegging Paradise about the necessary equipment; lube, harnesses and dildos. Let’s back up a step,…

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Best Pegging Positions

The best pegging positions depend on many factors; body type, height, fitness, and more. Here are some to try! They vary in degrees of intimacy, eye contact, cock accessibility, kissing, comfort, and giver/receiver effort required. Enjoy! Many Missionaries – to Convert You to Pegging! Missionary rates high for eye contact…

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Introducing Your Partner to Pegging

Introducing your partner to the idea of Pegging can be a challenge. The conversation can be really scary to have; it is a difficult subject to broach precisely because there are so many myths and misconceptions around pegging. Everyone has the right to decide what they do and don’t…

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Anal Bleeding

What to do When There is Bleeding A man found my website with the search words: “I bled after being pegged” This situation always concerns me. Anal tissues are much more fragile and subject to tearing than, for example, vaginal tissues (where babies are born from). So many people…

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Doesn’t It Hurt?

One of the first questions I hear from Givers who are new to the concept of Pegging is, “Doesn’t it hurt?” Now these might be Givers who have yet to explore posteriors in any serious fashion – either their own or the posterior of their partner. Yet sometimes I think that…

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The Basics of Rimming

What are the Basics of Rimming? Rimming, as sexy and hot and intimate and delightfully nasty as it is…is not everyone’s cup of tea. Yet some people love the feel of teasing their tongue into their partner’s ass and feeling them squirm with pleasure. And many people love the sensation…

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The Risks of Rimming

Know Your Rimming Risks While rimming can be a wonderfully intimate, hot experience to give and to receive, please know the risks before diving in to that adorable, inviting puckered hole… Consider carefully the exposure you are risking. Unprotected analingus is like unprotected sex and can expose you to…

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Do Women Love Pegging?

Yes, there are indeed many givers who love pegging. All givers are different and their specific reasons for enjoying strap-on sex are as many and varied as the individual givers are. Some givers enjoy pegging as another tender, sensual addition to sweet lovemaking. Some like to combine it with…

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No…He’s Not Gay

He’s not gay. Okay, everyone listening? Two common misconceptions about pegging: If a man likes pegging, he must be gay. If you peg a straight man, he will become gay. Cue Laughter and Eye Roll Both of these are so ridiculous as to be laughable on so many levels….

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