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Introducing your partner to pegging can be scary, but worth it!
Introducing your partner to the idea of Pegging can be a challenge. The conversation can be really scary to have; it is a difficult subject to broach precisely because there are so many myths and misconceptions around pegging. Everyone has the right to decide what they do and don’t…

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How Can I Introduce Pegging to My Conservative Partner? The most commonly asked question in the emails I receive, on the subreddit I moderate (r/straightpegging), and everywhere else I travel on the internet where folx are talking about pegging. Sometimes the questioner offers other bits of info like the ‘conservative’ part, or perhaps previous sexual play. In the forums, people who are already pegging will respond, wanting to be helpful. Many times they offer…
I’m really excited about this new Anal Training set I found! And I want to tell you all about it. First, let’s get specific about what’s meant by ‘Anal Training’. What is Anal Training? The term is usually used by someone intending on doing solo play with the goal of receiving anal penetration. Newbie pegging receivers often ask me how they can do Anal Training to prepare for eventual strap-on play. Questions about Anal…
Impact-Site-Verification: 56add943-8f90-4b88-861f-eaec6ab75055 So what, precisely, is a ‘directional toy’? First, when I say ‘toy’, I do indeed mean dildos. So many dildos. Dildos, dildos, and more dildos! They come in all sizes, shapes, and colors. Some sparkle. Some shine. And some even glow. Stripes, glitter, knots, bumps, twists, curves, and more. You get the point. In the world of Pegging (my favorite place to hang out), there is an important thing to remember about…
Let’s talk about pegging preparation. When first beginning to explore pegging, preparation is so important. Sadly, few people go further than cleaning out, sufficient lube, and making sure the ass in question can accept the toy being used. Questions like the following (and many others with the same basic message) are posted with regularity on pegging discussion forums all over the internet: So this is finally happening and I’m kinda nervous! My partner and…
Men who are interested in pegging are sometimes quite startled by the experience itself. Why? There can be a few reasons, but I want to talk about this one: the surprising intensity of the act. Sometimes porn arouses a man’s interest in pegging. If that’s the case, his expectations may have more to do with porn’s entertainment portrayal than the realities. Other times the interest stems from discovering the delight of anal pleasure. Sharing…