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Why go to a pro? You’ve all heard me talk about going to a sex worker as an option for those men who really want to try out pegging and cannot find a partner to try it with.  This man did it! And called me up to tell me the story. Give a listen – it might just change your mind a little about going to a professional… Perhaps you are a receiver who is not…
Attention Anal Newbies Is he new at receiving ass play? Are you new at giving it? Here are some suggestions for you women who want to begin to explore your man’s ass before donning that strap-on and going for the pegging. Preparation Brush up on your in-bed communication skills if you need to because the most important part about all of this is to stay in communication with each other. Look at a map…
What’s the Best Equipment? This is a common and perfectly acceptable question from newbies. I hear it all the time. The answer, however, is very complicated. There are many things to consider when buying a strap-on for the first time. One person’s perfect might be perfectly wrong for you. If you want to get an overview of all of the factors that are important to take into consideration, I recorded a podcast for you….
Tell the Truth About Strapless Strap-ons! Originally published in the Tantus Sex Ed Blog, June 12, 2015 They are seductive, the way they peek out from a woman’s vaginal lips and curve sexy and bold into the air, ready for action. So many pictures of exactly that. Mesmerizing pictures. Her hand holds her ‘cock’, as if it were real. It looks amazing. Fun colors pushing apart those lips, sometimes surrounded by hair, sometimes not. I particularly like the…
Podcast: For the Givers What is ‘For the Givers’? I have been recording podcasts for some time, but this last one might be of particular interest to you. For a while now I’ve been working on a book, a short and read-in-one-sitting book, in my voice, that was specifically intended for receivers to give to their partners to introduce them to the concept of pegging. I’d pretty much finished it, but I changed my mind….