A Gentle Reminder

A Gentle Reminder to the Receivers…

Just so you know…there is no cache of givers anywhere who are eagerly waiting to take the cherry of any offered up virgin ass that is craving a pegging. It simply does not work that way!

If you just want the experience of pegging, go find a sex worker to help you. I am serious about that. Sex workers would love to have a nice clean and respectful client who wants to experience pegging. Depending on where you live in the world, it may even be legal.

If, instead, you are looking for a relationship with a partner who will peg you, then look for a partner in the way you would normally go about finding one, whether that’s in person, online, or in your community.

If you want to be sure they are into pegging before you date them, FetLife.com is free and will connect you with kinky folk in your area (and sometimes the only kink they have is pegging). The search capabilities are definitely limited, but if they have listed pegging as a kink, you will be able to see it. You can find people in your area, but you have to take the time to look at each profile to see their kinks. (There are other dating websites that cost that will sort by kink – but I can’t recommend any of them.) Please know, however, that many givers who are into pegging will not list it as a kink because they get endless messages from receivers looking to get pegged.

So let’s say you find a person you are interested in, you’ve read their profile and determined they are available. The worst possible way you can approach them is to say – “wow, you are into pegging, will you peg me?” Do you approach partners that way in all your relationships? “Wow – you are cute, will you fuck me?” No – you get to know them first!

Again, a gentle reminder: Have some respect and manners in your approach. Send them a polite letter of introduction and engage them in conversation about something other than pegging. Meet with them over coffee, or go out to dinner. Get to know the person, don’t just pursue the strap-on! I feel for you, receivers…and I’m honestly happy you are interested in pegging, but start thinking with your big head!

And don’t forget – it is indeed possible to turn an open-minded person who has never done pegging into an enthusiastic pegger. I have heard many first hand accounts that bear this out! For some advice on how to do that, read this:

Approaching Her About Pegging

For one receiver’s story on how he gets his partners into pegging, read:

Vanilla to Pegger – One Man’s Story

Best of luck with your search!

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