Reassurance

Reassurance is always a welcome thing in life, no? Just about every day, as the awareness of and interest in pegging sweeps around the world, I receive a question from someone full of concerns, questions, fears and most of all, misconceptions. The same themes present over and over again. While these themes can each be explored in depth, here are the short answers….

(Please forgive the use of only gender binary pronouns – this was written some time ago)

For Her…

No, he’s NOT GAY
♥ He does not want a man to replace you
♥ No, he does not secretly want a cock
♥ Pegging him will not magically turn him gay
♥ He just wants you to fuck him in the ass
♥ Honest

(If he is bisexual, disregard this one)

No, it doesn’t hurt.
♥ Yes it feels good
♥ As long as you do it right
♥ Really good
♥ Honest

No, you will not look ridiculous wearing a strap-on
♥ He will think you look hot, I guarantee
♥ Are you kidding? He’s been fantasizing about this…
♥ So hot he might come just looking at you
♥ Honest

No, pegging is not like the pegging in porn
♥ It is not humiliating
♥ Also. no it is not degrading
♥ No he does not have to dress like a woman
♥ You don’t have to yell at him and hit him
♥ He just wants you to fuck him in the ass
♥ Honest

(Disclaimer – if you are into any of these kinks, disregard this one)

For Him

No, you are NOT GAY
♥ No, wanting to be pegged does not make you gay
♥ And no, being pegged will not magically turn you gay
♥ Yes, you still love breasts and pussies
♥ Which means you are not gay
♥ Even though you want her to fuck you in the ass
♥ It’s all okay
♥ Honest

(If you are bisexual – disregard this one)

No, it doesn’t hurt
♥ Yes. it feels good
♥ As long as she does it right
♥ Really good
♥ Honest

No, it will not compromise your masculinity
♥ Yes, she will respect you in the morning
♥ Yes, you can continue being a man’s man
♥ It’s all okay
♥ Honest

No, pegging is not like the pegging in porn
♥ No humiliation
♥ Also, no degradation
♥ No feminization
♥ Verbal and physical abuse are not mandatory
♥ She really can just fuck you in the ass
♥ Without all that stuff
♥ Honest

(Disclaimer – if you are into any of these kinks, disregard this one)

So if those are all the things pegging is not, then what is pegging?

Yes, pegging is hot, hot sex
♥ Surprising Intensity
♥ Amazing Discovery
♥ Deeper Intimacy
♥ Fascinating Role Reversal
♥ Another Way to Make Love!

This message of reassurance has been brought to you by PeggingParadise.com and Pegging101.com

Introducing Your Partner – 2 Podcasts:

Approaching a Prospective Receiver

Approaching a Prospective Giver

These recordings dispel myths and misconceptions, offering reassurance in the form of accurate information, emphasizing the relationship.

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