He Went to a Pro

Going to a pro can be a great option for some receivers
Why go to a pro? You’ve all heard me talk about going to a sex worker as an option for those men who really want to try out pegging and cannot find a partner to try it with.  This man did it! And called me up to tell me the story….
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Newbie Ass Play For Couples

Attention Anal Newbies Is he new at receiving ass play? Are you new at giving it? Here are some suggestions for you women who want to begin to explore your man’s ass before donning that strap-on and going for the pegging. Preparation Brush up on your in-bed communication skills…
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Best Equipment For Pegging?

Ruby Ryder shares photo of many different dildos as examples of best equipment for pegging
What’s the Best Equipment? This is a common and perfectly acceptable question from newbies. I hear it all the time. The answer, however, is very complicated. There are many things to consider when buying a strap-on for the first time. One person’s perfect might be perfectly wrong for you….
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The Truth About Strapless Strap-Ons

Tell the Truth About Strapless Strap-ons! Originally published in the Tantus Sex Ed Blog, June 12, 2015 They are seductive, the way they peek out from a woman’s vaginal lips and curve sexy and bold into the air, ready for action. So many pictures of exactly that. Mesmerizing pictures. Her hand holds…
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Introductory Podcast for the Givers

Podcast: For the Givers What is ‘For the Givers’? I have been recording podcasts for some time, but this last one might be of particular interest to you. For a while now I’ve been working on a book, a short and read-in-one-sitting book, in my voice, that was specifically…
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Double Dildo for DP?

So one question that comes back over and over is this: Can a man use a double dildo to double penetrate a woman? With his penis in her vagina and the bulb end of the double in his ass, penetrating her ass? I’ll give you a moment to picture…
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Ejaculating Dildos?

Anyone who has searched for an ejaculating dildo has probably had the same experience. Sure, they are out there, but the quality basically sucks. So – along comes Stephanie Berman – inventor of the Semenette and the POPDildo. YES, excellent quality ejaculating dildos are now available! YES, you can…
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Fucking Amazing

(A fucking amazing personal share from Ruby.) I’ve been fucking guys in the ass for some time now. With my notoriety as Ruby Ryder, I think many people believe I get to fuck guys all the time and that I must have a ton of experience. Measurements of that…
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Reassurance

Ruby Ryder shares people jumping up in celebration of reassurance, backlit by sunset
Reassurance is always a welcome thing in life, no? Just about every day, as the awareness of and interest in pegging sweeps around the world, I receive a question from someone full of concerns, questions, fears and most of all, misconceptions. The same themes present over and over again….
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(M)I’m Scared to Tell My (F)Partner

Gentlemen First of all… You are not alone. Certainly not alone in the sense of enjoying anal stimulation, and not alone in the sense of scared to tell your significant other. It can be a super scary thing, for a lot of reasons. Telling your partner requires 3 things. Communication Information…
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