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Introducing your partner to the idea of Pegging can be a challenge. The conversation can be really scary to have; it is a difficult subject to broach precisely because there are so many myths and misconceptions around pegging. Everyone has the right to decide what they do and don’t want to do in bed. But sometimes fears and misconceptions around Pegging can get in the way of responding rather than reacting to those incorrect…
- Ruby Ryder
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What to do When There is Bleeding A man found my website with the search words: “I bled after being pegged” This situation always concerns me. Anal tissues are much more fragile and subject to tearing than, for example, vaginal tissues (where babies are born from). So many people do not realize that care must be taken when approaching anal penetration. A LOT of care. And too many people don’t seem to realize that…
- Ruby Ryder
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One of the first questions I hear from Givers who are new to the concept of Pegging is, “Doesn’t it hurt?” Now these might be Givers who have yet to explore posteriors in any serious fashion – either their own or the posterior of their partner. Yet sometimes I think that reaction is a direct result of their own ass having been at the receiving end of rushed and inexperienced fingers/cocks/toys. Especially with the vast quantities…
- Ruby Ryder
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What are the Basics of Rimming? Rimming, as sexy and hot and intimate and delightfully nasty as it is…is not everyone’s cup of tea. Yet some people love the feel of teasing their tongue into their partner’s ass and feeling them squirm with pleasure. And many people love the sensation of a warm wet tongue pushing into their anus. It can be exquisite. (Can you tell I am biased, here?) But let’s back up (subtle…
- Ruby Ryder
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Know Your Rimming Risks While rimming can be a wonderfully intimate, hot experience to give and to receive, please know the risks before diving in to that adorable, inviting puckered hole… Consider carefully the exposure you are risking. Unprotected analingus is like unprotected sex and can expose you to the same risks plus some others. Warning: Clinical blog post coming up. If you wanna play, ya gotta know the rules… Disclaimer: I am not…
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