Author: Ruby Ryder

Ruby Ryder shares man laying on side, caressing his ass with one hand
He’s not gay. Okay, everyone listening? Two common misconceptions about pegging: If a man likes pegging, he must be gay. If you peg a straight man, he will become gay. Cue Laughter and Eye Roll Both of these are so ridiculous as to be laughable on so many levels….
Ruby Ryder shares woman sitting on chair and being mounted by partner in the chairman position
The Chairman position requires a sturdy chair (because you will both be on it), with no arms and a high back. The giver sits in the chair and the receiver mounts themselves. Then the receivers arms go above the giver’s shoulders to hold on to the top of the…
Ruby Ryder shares man in shower with xplay pro shower attachment for cleaning out for pegging
Keeping clean during pegging is something both givers and receivers are concerned about. A common question I get is: How Can We Make Our Pegging Experience Cleaner? First, there is no way around the fact that the orifice you are deriving so much pleasure from is the very one…
Prostate Orgasm Defined:Through anal stimulation only (without penile stimulation) a man experiences orgasm and release of seminal fluid. Sometimes called an anal orgasm. A Different Kind of PleasureWhen the prostate is stimulated (by fingers or toys) there is a feeling often described as a warmth or tingling or itching…
‘The Woman’ This article was written before all the changes in the gender binary and pronoun usage. Inclusivity is intended, but I will leave this article in its original form. For the Gentlemen… Sort of like the cart before the horse… Since diving dildo-first into exploring the world of…
Intimacy and pegging go together like hand in glove, usually. Intimacy is often a necessary ingredient in pegging, and can’t be created with the buckle of a strap-on harness. The fantasy of meeting someone, going home with them and pulling out the strap-on makes for great erotica fodder, yet…
Pegging Orgasm Intensity What does an orgasm feels like with combined prostate stimulation or pegging with penis stimulation? Is an orgasm like that really 10x more powerful than a “normal” orgasm? What the Receivers Say I asked these questions in the subreddit r/pegging some years back (when there used to be…
If you are a woman who wants to approach your man about pegging, this article is for you. (If you are a man who wants to approach your woman about pegging click here.) Communication First, communication is the key. You need to be able to ask for what you want. If you…
Ruby Ryder share Entice Me logo, purveyor of fine pegging toys
Toxic Sex Toy Talk… Part of pegging, a very important part, is of course the dildo. If you use butt plugs in your play I’m talking about those as well. In fact let’s just leave the whole pegging concept behind for a moment (with reluctance) and talk about sex…