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Introducing Your Partner to Pegging

Introducing your partner to pegging can be scary, but worth it!
Introducing your partner to the idea of Pegging can be a challenge. The conversation can be really scary to have; it is a difficult subject to broach precisely because there are so many myths and misconceptions around pegging. Everyone has the right to decide what they do and don’t…
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Doesn’t It Hurt?

One of the first questions I hear from Givers who are new to the concept of Pegging is, “Doesn’t it hurt?” Now these might be Givers who have yet to explore posteriors in any serious fashion – either their own or the posterior of their partner. Yet sometimes I think that…
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Do Women Love Pegging?

Ruby Ryder shares example photo of women who love pegging
Yes, there are indeed many givers who love pegging. All givers are different and their specific reasons for enjoying strap-on sex are as many and varied as the individual givers are. Some givers enjoy pegging as another tender, sensual addition to sweet lovemaking. Some like to combine it with…
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No…He’s Not Gay

Ruby Ryder shares man laying on side, caressing his ass with one hand
He’s not gay. Okay, everyone listening? Two common misconceptions about pegging: If a man likes pegging, he must be gay. If you peg a straight man, he will become gay. Cue Laughter and Eye Roll Both of these are so ridiculous as to be laughable on so many levels….
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Introductory Podcast for the Givers

Podcast: For the Givers What is ‘For the Givers’? I have been recording podcasts for some time, but this last one might be of particular interest to you. For a while now I’ve been working on a book, a short and read-in-one-sitting book, in my voice, that was specifically…
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Reassurance

Ruby Ryder shares people jumping up in celebration of reassurance, backlit by sunset
Reassurance is always a welcome thing in life, no? Just about every day, as the awareness of and interest in pegging sweeps around the world, I receive a question from someone full of concerns, questions, fears and most of all, misconceptions. The same themes present over and over again….
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(M)I’m Scared to Tell My (F)Partner

Gentlemen First of all… You are not alone. Certainly not alone in the sense of enjoying anal stimulation, and not alone in the sense of scared to tell your significant other. It can be a super scary thing, for a lot of reasons. Telling your partner requires 3 things. Communication Information…
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